Women and porn

Photo courtesy of Ersties

There has been way too much focus on men regarding sexual satisfaction both in society and the world. Women are made to curve into being more sexually appealing to be seen and admired by men to some extent.

For this reason, they are always on the lookout for ways on how to best satisfy a man more than he could possibly be out there to keep him. These confused pursuits have led the woman to turn to porn to learn what a man desires in a woman and what is expected of her in bed.

And while this might seem pretty much ridiculous because porn is termed as very demeaning to women, what better option do they have’ After all, isn’t it common knowledge that porn is specially created to meet a man’s fantasy, and the women featured are just but objects of pleasure’ The harsh reality is that sex education doesn’t really do it for women, and perhaps the only thing they pick up from it is how to pinch the condom at the tip.

Well, the porn world is evolving, and over the years, some porn productions like Ersties have turned to produce feminist porn, but there is still so little of it. The irony of it is that the scenes are a bit too intense, passionate, and perhaps driven towards making the woman achieve as many orgasms as they can; the women featured are picture-perfect. This means that if the usual porn is said to make a woman hate their bodies for not having perkier tits or a solid ass, the feminist porn version doesn’t exactly embrace their imperfections.

As for the bold type of a woman who knows precisely where it ticks in her body and is ready to communicate what they want, these are particularly rare. As a matter of fact, some have had to overlook the unethical nature of porn itself to masturbate and explore their bodies to get to that point. Therefore, with the increasing consumption of porn by women, it is only natural that one should wonder whether women have conformed to the societal norms or are just looking for ideas of what men really want.

Again, there is no specific model of how normal sex should be like. So if the men presumably are said to find the submissiveness of the porn models delightful, then the ideal woman out there doesn’t have much choice anyway. And while communication might bring a breakthrough, this issue of sex is increasingly openly embraced by society. Most times, the man is burdened by the responsibility to perform just as much as the woman is afraid to disappoint.

Bottom line, as long as the woman is not taught how to satisfy a man and what is required of her in terms of what to do and how to appear, perhaps porn, even with its endless misgivings, will remain the only valid example of sex. Check out ToughLove X to see videos of women trained to please a man.